This was very well-said. I am reading my friends flist and I'm happy I stumbled on this.
It's frustrating and confusing when you have to put your foot down with men you've ALREADY been intimate with. A person has every right to choose never being intimate with that person again, but men always find that so APPALLING. Why should "You let me do it before!" even be an ARGUMENT when a woman (or ANYONE) says NO. You know? It's so PETULANT too. Like, why are you making your own choices? WHINE WHINE! Why aren't you just letting me do what I WANT? You ALREADY DID! That's soooo unfair!
ugh, no dude. That's just my PRIVILEGE of having a body.
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Date: 2008-04-24 02:41 am (UTC)It's frustrating and confusing when you have to put your foot down with men you've ALREADY been intimate with. A person has every right to choose never being intimate with that person again, but men always find that so APPALLING. Why should "You let me do it before!" even be an ARGUMENT when a woman (or ANYONE) says NO. You know? It's so PETULANT too. Like, why are you making your own choices? WHINE WHINE! Why aren't you just letting me do what I WANT? You ALREADY DID! That's soooo unfair!
ugh, no dude. That's just my PRIVILEGE of having a body.